Reply #25: I'm cutting everyone some slack except Marc .... [View All]

[TexasBushwhacker]

... who just went through a quickie divorce from the mother of 2 of his children (he has a third was a former girlfriend).

J Lo's clock is ticking. She'll be 34 next month. She wants to start a family SOON with someone she's married to and Ben, two years younger and God knows how much less mature, "just wasn't ready". Marc Anthony, although only 3 years older than Ben, obviously isn't afraid of the fatherhood thing.

She tried marriage twice with men who weren't famous, and it didn't work. She dated Sean Combs (aka P Diddy aka Puff Daddy) and she got flack for doing it for publicity only, even though he got just as much publicity for DATING HER. Ultimately, she's a middle class girl from a happy family and she had the good fortune to make it big. Now she wants to have her own family. She's just been trying to find the right man to have that family with, and let me tell ya, it isn't easy, especially for a woman as successful as she is.

As for Ben's acting, actors act as well as their directors demand them to. If he has a good script and a strong director, Ben's acting is fine. If an actor is bad, it's the director's fault, and that doesn't come from me, it comes from Spike Lee.