Reply #70: Relationships should be the bonus, not our defining everything. [View All]

[SarahB]

I was talking about this tonight with someone. They were saying don't accept anything less than what you want, etc. I said, "I have no fear being alone. I've already took fear, chewed it up and spit it out in many ways." However, I'm not going to turn away someone from my life either that is incredible to me. I don't live in fear in that regard either. I don't fear being alone. I don't fear love either.

Loving yourself is the staple of our existence. Sharing that love with someone else is the gravy. :)

Just my theory.