Reply #31: Take the credit cards from her and rip them up; no choice [View All]

[barb162]

And give her a set amount of cash a week to spend. I hate saying this but it sounds like this is the only alternative at this point. This isn't about counseling as much as financial survival and if she can't figure out money doesn't grow on trees yet, she needs an allowance until you guys get out of the hole.