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Edited on Thu Jul-17-08 07:54 PM by BattyDem
I lost my "baby" in February, so I know what you're going through. I'm so sorry your Luna was returned to you like that. It must have been heartbreaking. :hug:
The way your pet is returned all depends upon the place that handled the cremation.
Twelve years ago, I lost my cocker spaniel and his ashes were returned to me in a copper-colored, tin canister. (I was also given a certificate of death/cremation and a copy of the Rainbow Bridge.) His ashes were in a plastic bag which was closed with a plastic tie. I hated it. I bought him a marble urn with an engraved plate.
In February, I lost my poodle, Maestro, and the vet told me to contact the crematorium to make the arrangements. (It was different than it was with my cocker spaniel. At that time, the vet handled all the arrangements for me.) I called, discussed the details and they told me how the ashes would be returned. I had the option of purchasing an urn from them, but I didn't. One week later, he was returned in a lovely, cherry-colored, wooden box with a brass lock. Although it was very nice, I wanted him to have a marble urn like my other guy. When I opened the box, I found something that looked like a pillow. His ashes were in a plastic, zip-loc bag. The zipper was sealed and then folded over and secured with tape. Then it was neatly wrapped in dark green tissue paper - which made the "package" look like a little, green pillow. (I did peak inside the tissue, just to make sure he was there - which was a bit silly, I guess.) I took the "pillow" out of the box and put it in the urn. I was also given a certificate of death/cremation.
I bought his urn locally, at a place that sells cemetery monuments, mausoleums and urns. It cost about $130 with the name plate. They did have very nice wooden, brass and ceramic urns that are specifically designed for pets (the one I bought was designed for a child) and didn't cost as much. I only got the marble one because my other guy had marble - I didn't want to play favorites. :-)
Maestro died at an Animal Emergency Hospital. (I won't go into the details, but he took a unexpected turn for the worse after a long illness.) The doctor who cared for him didn't know him, but she sent me a copy of the Rainbow Bridge and a packet of seeds - Forget-Me-Nots - with a card that told me to plant them in his memory. Our primary vet made a donation in his name to American Animal Hospital Association's Helping Pets Fund, which pays for veterinary care for homeless pets and provides free veterinary care to families with financial problems who can't afford it.
In other words, everyone involved with Maestro's passing was very kind and thoughtful. You should say something to your vet and his staff. Perhaps they're not aware that no urn is given with the ashes. Be sure to mention the fact that no one bothered to call you. They should have been a lot more compassionate. :-(
You should also find out the name of the crematorium and give them a call. The way they returned Luna was just terrible. You should have gotten a certificate of death/cremation. At the very least, you should have gotten some kind of inexpensive container, not just a plastic bag!
I know it's difficult to read these messages. I'm so sorry if I made you cry. I hope you get this resolved for both you and Luna. :hug:
edited: typo :blush:
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