I recently read a book about international adoptions. One of the interesting things I noted was that in the case of Korea, the huge market for Korean children in the United States has played a major role in preventing the evolution of the culture and how unmarried pregnant women are treated. There's such an infrastructure in place for "dealing with" unwed mothers that the country doesn't have to examine issues such as patriarchal roles that discourage women-headed households and working mothers and don't require men to support their children out of wedlock, the lack of contraceptive options and support mechanisms for women to keep their babies, etc. Meanwhile, adoption -- and today, tourism from adoptees coming to the country looking for their "roots -- brings a huge amount of American dollars into the country.
And that was the situation for many years in the United States. It was assumed that unmarried pregnant women were going to put their baby up for adoption. Sometimes when those women had other plans, they were not given a choice. I've written here before about, when Googling my mother's maiden name, coming across an post on a board called
angrygrandma.net from a woman looking for her half-sister:
"It is believed that Baby C was adopted illegally. I would give anything to find you so you would know that Mom did not put you up for adoption. She left you at a home for unwed mother's so she could go to Wash, DC and earn enough money to come back for you and she rec'd a letter saying you had died." From what I can tell, the birth mother here was my grandfather's first cousin, 18 years old at the time of this birth in the late 1940s and a first-generation Italian-American. How many times was this story repeated during the 1940s and 1950s, that "golden era" that the Repukes would have us return to? :cry:
Somewhat OT, for an interesting change of perspective on international adoption, check out the
Transracial Abductees site.