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In reply to the discussion: 'Wypipo' Explained [View all]wonkwest
(463 posts)(I'm going to reference my own status a lot in getting my point across)
No one is going to suddenly be racist because Wypipo. But it will reinforce a predilection. If a white person is coming around, making steps, trying to be a better person, and then they see, "We just hate white people," it's very counterproductive. It turns future allies off.
My family is uber Catholic. I came out, I wrestled with them. Today, everything is fine. My parents are like, "Are you bringing your boyfriend with you?" in a positive way when I travel to see them.
What I don't do is make fun of them for being Catholic. I don't denigrate them. I don't tell them how wrong they are. I tell them, "This is who I am, this is my life, and this is my happiness." That's a much smoother road.
Wypipo is adversarial. If you want a fight, you'll get a fight. I just don't want a fight. There are better ways. That's where I'm coming from.