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very sorry Skittles May 20 #1
She is "Sue" ... a name that we'd heard over the years. Close friend? Girlfriend? It's unknown. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #3
that is terrible, to sound so casual Skittles May 20 #71
Yes. It was almost an "in passing" and "by the way" message. An afterthought. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #80
I understand your feelings. Yavin4 May 20 #2
Thank you. You're right. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #9
Sorry for your loss. Groundhawg May 20 #4
Many thanks. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #10
RIP XanaDUer2 May 20 #5
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #12
I'm sad for your loss, I am sad he was homeless. I am especially sad he died alone, and needlessly of Covid ... marble falls May 20 #6
Thanks very much. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #15
That is a shame. LiberalFighter May 20 #7
He died in Florida. I've looked into this, but without his SSN, it's unlikely. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #16
You're Right modrepub May 20 #41
Thanks for your advice and insights. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #135
Doesn't look like there is a way to locate it in Florida. LiberalFighter May 20 #42
We did that. The phone number is a mobile number with an area code that serves Minneapolis. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #45
He may well have turned to the VA with such a health crisis. 70sEraVet May 20 #56
Thank you. We'll reach out. That's a good idea. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #77
Yes... definitely check with the VA! slightlv May 20 #105
Thank you! We haven't given up yet. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #136
Aw, I'm sorry anyway... FirstLight May 20 #8
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #17
I am so sorry, not just for your loss, but also because you are left with so many unanswered questions. tblue37 May 20 #68
Yes, that's difficult. Frustrating. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #79
I'm so sorry, Oopsie Daisy. LuckyCharms May 20 #11
Many thanks! Oopsie Daisy May 20 #18
Condolences FakeNoose May 20 #13
Thanks so much. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #20
Requiescat in pace shrike3 May 20 #14
I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #21
Praying for you mdmc May 20 #19
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #23
Sorry to hear this. ❤️ underpants May 20 #22
Many thanks. It's not what I expected, but not surprising. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #24
for the last twenty years I ran a treatment apartment program for people with severe mental illness mdmc May 20 #29
That's a good idea! We'll try that. We haven't given up on our efforts to reach out... Oopsie Daisy May 20 #33
between the soup kitchens and bodega employees and social workers and others on the street... mdmc May 20 #43
I'll never NOT give to a pandhandler again (unless I have nothing to give) Oopsie Daisy May 20 #53
Yes. I agree with you on this. KarenS May 20 #61
Husband always gives to panhandlers. shrike3 May 20 #92
That's my new philosophy. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #102
The worrying and wondering must have been dreadful to bear. brer cat May 20 #25
Yes. And I thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #27
Holding your family in my heart. Mercy and peace bring you consolation... n/t TygrBright May 20 #26
Thanks very much. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #28
So sorry for your loss. Whenever a family member leaves, there is loss. And grief. japple May 20 #30
I appreciate your comforting thoughts. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #36
Bless. PlutosHeart May 20 #31
Thanks for your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #34
I'm so sorry happy feet May 20 #32
Thank you very much. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #37
I am sorry. KarenS May 20 #35
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #39
I'm so very sorry cate94 May 20 #38
I appreciate your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #40
I can certainly understand why you would have a sense of relief! PortTack May 20 #44
Yes. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #48
I am so sorry for your loss. sheshe2 May 20 #46
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #49
I'm so sorry Katcat May 20 #47
Thanks for your kindness. Sending strength to you and your family as well. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #50
I am so sorry senseandsensibility May 20 #51
Thanks very much for you kind thoughts. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #54
I am sorry - TBF May 20 #52
I understand. Thanks for sharing your story, too. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #57
Sorry for your situation. I sense your feeling MOMFUDSKI May 20 #55
I appreciate that. Many thanks! Oopsie Daisy May 20 #58
So sorry for your loss SocialDemocrat61 May 20 #59
Thank you. That means a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #64
I'm so sorry, and it is so sad. lapucelle May 20 #60
I appreciate your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #65
I'm sorry for your loss, for what was & is & might have been. May he rest in peace & may you remember the good times. Hekate May 20 #62
Many thanks! That means a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #66
Very sorry, Oopsie. ancianita May 20 #63
We are relieved, and sad. I can't even remember what my last words to him were. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #67
It's true. I hope you gave him a feeling of care. ancianita May 20 #69
I am so sorry Oopsie Daisy. May the memeories and love you two shared be a blessing to you. debm55 May 20 #70
Yes... we had a wonderful childhood. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #73
I'm so sorry... LeftInTX May 20 #72
Thanks so much! Oopsie Daisy May 20 #74
I'm so sorry mountain grammy May 20 #75
Many thanks. We were close as children * Oopsie Daisy May 20 #76
So sorry for your loss. COL Mustard May 20 #78
I will. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #82
Holding you and your family in love and light. May you all find peace niyad May 20 #81
I appreciate that. Thank you Oopsie Daisy May 20 #84
It sounds like this was the life he chose, so hopefully he was happy in it. Very sorry for your loss. Joinfortmill May 20 #83
Yes. I must remind myself of that. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #85
I'm very sorry for your loss dlk May 20 #86
Thank you, dlk! Oopsie Daisy May 20 #88
Of course, I'll be thinking of you dlk May 20 #90
Condolences on your loss Alice Kramden May 20 #87
I appreciate that, Alice. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #89
Dear Oopsie Daisy, madaboutharry May 20 #91
Thanks very much! I appreciate that. It helps to share. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #96
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your brother, John. lucca18 May 20 #93
Thanks, Lucca18. Your kind words mean a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #97
I'm very sorry to hear this Orrex May 20 #94
Thanks, Orrex! I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #99
I am sorry for your loss this way; I was also at a loss peacebuzzard May 20 #95
Thanks for sharing your story, too. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #100
So with you. I am so sorry. MuseRider May 20 #98
Yes. During this silence, we'd wondered "what-if he's dead" ... Oopsie Daisy May 20 #101
Thanks, MuseRider May 20 #104
The OUTPOURING of kindness of EVERYONE HERE has been very helpful and HEARTWARMING, and * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #111
Sad story. It's not a Brady Brunch reality for a lot of families. OAITW r.2.0 May 20 #103
Thank you, OAITW. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #108
What a story. What a sad story, and a heart-breaking one. He went where his heart wanted to go. Doodley May 20 #106
Thanks very much! That helps to put it into perspective. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #109
I'm sorry for your loss. area51 May 20 #107
That's kind of you to say. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #110
Sorry for your loss. Don1 May 21 #112
Many thanks, Don1 ... I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #113
Sounds fishy. ECL213 May 21 #114
We thought that might be a possibility. But he stopped picking up and cashing checks * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #116
The County Medical Examiner or Coroner should have a record of his death, Liberty Belle May 21 #118
That's a good idea. Many road blocks and brick walls so far. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #119
My deepest condolences. Ursus Rex May 21 #115
Thank you. That's a good way to describe it * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #117
I am sorry Lulu KC May 21 #120
Yes. That's exactly right. Definitely a mixed-bag * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #132
we had a few of those in my family.... dembotoz May 21 #121
Thanks for sharing and for checking-in. Things like this * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #130
Let's hope Sue is still not receiving his benefits Owens May 21 #122
That's a good question. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #124
I'm so sorry your brother died sdfernando May 21 #123
Many thanks. It's frustrating and emotionally exhausting trying to find information * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #129
Condolences wryter2000 May 21 #125
Thank you. You're right * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #128
I'm so sorry. Lots of complicated feelings there. yardwork May 21 #126
We had a regular childhood, but it fell apart eventually * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #127
Sounds a lot like my brother bif May 21 #131
Thanks for sharing that, Bif. I'm very sorry * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #133
Thanks bif May 21 #137
sorry to hear this bif mdmc May 21 #134
Thanks. bif May 21 #138
So sad...... a kennedy May 21 #139
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #140
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