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Oopsie Daisy

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124. That's a good question.

Reply to Owens (Reply #122)

Tue May 21, 2024, 12:25 PM

May 2024

She did not try to claim or pick up his trust checks.

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I just learned that my homeless little brother died... two years ago... of covid. [View all] Oopsie Daisy May 2024 OP

very sorry Skittles May 2024 #1

She is "Sue" ... a name that we'd heard over the years. Close friend? Girlfriend? It's unknown. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #3

that is terrible, to sound so casual Skittles May 2024 #71

Yes. It was almost an "in passing" and "by the way" message. An afterthought. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #80

I understand your feelings. Yavin4 May 2024 #2

Thank you. You're right. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #9

Sorry for your loss. Groundhawg May 2024 #4

Many thanks. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #10

RIP XanaDUer2 May 2024 #5

Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #12

I'm sad for your loss, I am sad he was homeless. I am especially sad he died alone, and needlessly of Covid ... marble falls May 2024 #6

Thanks very much. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #15

That is a shame. LiberalFighter May 2024 #7

He died in Florida. I've looked into this, but without his SSN, it's unlikely. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #16

You're Right modrepub May 2024 #41

Thanks for your advice and insights. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #135

Doesn't look like there is a way to locate it in Florida. LiberalFighter May 2024 #42

We did that. The phone number is a mobile number with an area code that serves Minneapolis. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #45

He may well have turned to the VA with such a health crisis. 70sEraVet May 2024 #56

Thank you. We'll reach out. That's a good idea. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #77

Yes... definitely check with the VA! slightlv May 2024 #105

Thank you! We haven't given up yet. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #136

Aw, I'm sorry anyway... FirstLight May 2024 #8

Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #17

I am so sorry, not just for your loss, but also because you are left with so many unanswered questions. tblue37 May 2024 #68

Yes, that's difficult. Frustrating. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #79

I'm so sorry, Oopsie Daisy. LuckyCharms May 2024 #11

Many thanks! Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #18

Condolences FakeNoose May 2024 #13

Thanks so much. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #20

Requiescat in pace shrike3 May 2024 #14

I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #21

Praying for you mdmc May 2024 #19

Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #23

Sorry to hear this. ❤️ underpants May 2024 #22

Many thanks. It's not what I expected, but not surprising. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #24

for the last twenty years I ran a treatment apartment program for people with severe mental illness mdmc May 2024 #29

That's a good idea! We'll try that. We haven't given up on our efforts to reach out... Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #33

between the soup kitchens and bodega employees and social workers and others on the street... mdmc May 2024 #43

I'll never NOT give to a pandhandler again (unless I have nothing to give) Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #53

Yes. I agree with you on this. KarenS May 2024 #61

Husband always gives to panhandlers. shrike3 May 2024 #92

That's my new philosophy. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #102

The worrying and wondering must have been dreadful to bear. brer cat May 2024 #25

Yes. And I thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #27

Holding your family in my heart. Mercy and peace bring you consolation... n/t TygrBright May 2024 #26

Thanks very much. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #28

So sorry for your loss. Whenever a family member leaves, there is loss. And grief. japple May 2024 #30

I appreciate your comforting thoughts. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #36

Bless. PlutosHeart May 2024 #31

Thanks for your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #34

I'm so sorry happy feet May 2024 #32

Thank you very much. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #37

I am sorry. KarenS May 2024 #35

Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #39

I'm so very sorry cate94 May 2024 #38

I appreciate your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #40

I can certainly understand why you would have a sense of relief! PortTack May 2024 #44

Yes. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #48

I am so sorry for your loss. sheshe2 May 2024 #46

Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #49

I'm so sorry Katcat May 2024 #47

Thanks for your kindness. Sending strength to you and your family as well. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #50

I am so sorry senseandsensibility May 2024 #51

Thanks very much for you kind thoughts. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #54

I am sorry - TBF May 2024 #52

I understand. Thanks for sharing your story, too. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #57

Sorry for your situation. I sense your feeling MOMFUDSKI May 2024 #55

I appreciate that. Many thanks! Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #58

So sorry for your loss SocialDemocrat61 May 2024 #59

Thank you. That means a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #64

I'm so sorry, and it is so sad. lapucelle May 2024 #60

I appreciate your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #65

I'm sorry for your loss, for what was & is & might have been. May he rest in peace & may you remember the good times. Hekate May 2024 #62

Many thanks! That means a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #66

Very sorry, Oopsie. ancianita May 2024 #63

We are relieved, and sad. I can't even remember what my last words to him were. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #67

It's true. I hope you gave him a feeling of care. ancianita May 2024 #69

I am so sorry Oopsie Daisy. May the memeories and love you two shared be a blessing to you. debm55 May 2024 #70

Yes... we had a wonderful childhood. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #73

I'm so sorry... LeftInTX May 2024 #72

Thanks so much! Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #74

I'm so sorry mountain grammy May 2024 #75

Many thanks. We were close as children * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #76

So sorry for your loss. COL Mustard May 2024 #78

I will. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #82

Holding you and your family in love and light. May you all find peace niyad May 2024 #81

I appreciate that. Thank you Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #84

It sounds like this was the life he chose, so hopefully he was happy in it. Very sorry for your loss. Joinfortmill May 2024 #83

Yes. I must remind myself of that. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #85

I'm very sorry for your loss dlk May 2024 #86

Thank you, dlk! Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #88

Of course, I'll be thinking of you dlk May 2024 #90

Condolences on your loss Alice Kramden May 2024 #87

I appreciate that, Alice. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #89

Dear Oopsie Daisy, madaboutharry May 2024 #91

Thanks very much! I appreciate that. It helps to share. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #96

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your brother, John. lucca18 May 2024 #93

Thanks, Lucca18. Your kind words mean a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #97

I'm very sorry to hear this Orrex May 2024 #94

Thanks, Orrex! I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #99

I am sorry for your loss this way; I was also at a loss peacebuzzard May 2024 #95

Thanks for sharing your story, too. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #100

So with you. I am so sorry. MuseRider May 2024 #98

Yes. During this silence, we'd wondered "what-if he's dead" ... Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #101

Thanks, MuseRider May 2024 #104

The OUTPOURING of kindness of EVERYONE HERE has been very helpful and HEARTWARMING, and * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #111

Sad story. It's not a Brady Brunch reality for a lot of families. OAITW r.2.0 May 2024 #103

Thank you, OAITW. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #108

What a story. What a sad story, and a heart-breaking one. He went where his heart wanted to go. Doodley May 2024 #106

Thanks very much! That helps to put it into perspective. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #109

I'm sorry for your loss. area51 May 2024 #107

That's kind of you to say. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #110

Sorry for your loss. Don1 May 2024 #112

Many thanks, Don1 ... I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #113

Sounds fishy. ECL213 May 2024 #114

We thought that might be a possibility. But he stopped picking up and cashing checks * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #116

The County Medical Examiner or Coroner should have a record of his death, Liberty Belle May 2024 #118

That's a good idea. Many road blocks and brick walls so far. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #119

My deepest condolences. Ursus Rex May 2024 #115

Thank you. That's a good way to describe it * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #117

I am sorry Lulu KC May 2024 #120

Yes. That's exactly right. Definitely a mixed-bag * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #132

we had a few of those in my family.... dembotoz May 2024 #121

Thanks for sharing and for checking-in. Things like this * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #130

Let's hope Sue is still not receiving his benefits Owens May 2024 #122

That's a good question. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #124

I'm so sorry your brother died sdfernando May 2024 #123

Many thanks. It's frustrating and emotionally exhausting trying to find information * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #129

Condolences wryter2000 May 2024 #125

Thank you. You're right * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #128

I'm so sorry. Lots of complicated feelings there. yardwork May 2024 #126

We had a regular childhood, but it fell apart eventually * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #127

Sounds a lot like my brother bif May 2024 #131

Thanks for sharing that, Bif. I'm very sorry * Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #133

Thanks bif May 2024 #137

sorry to hear this bif mdmc May 2024 #134

Thanks. bif May 2024 #138

So sad...... a kennedy May 2024 #139

Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 2024 #140