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Oopsie Daisy

(3,195 posts)
133. Thanks for sharing that, Bif. I'm very sorry *
Tue May 21, 2024, 01:23 PM
May 21

* to hear what happened. So sad and tragic to care for someone but not be able to help them, or to have the offers of help refused. Even in failure and tragedy, just knowing/believing that we did our best is sometimes all we can hang onto.

very sorry Skittles May 20 #1
She is "Sue" ... a name that we'd heard over the years. Close friend? Girlfriend? It's unknown. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #3
that is terrible, to sound so casual Skittles May 20 #71
Yes. It was almost an "in passing" and "by the way" message. An afterthought. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #80
I understand your feelings. Yavin4 May 20 #2
Thank you. You're right. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #9
Sorry for your loss. Groundhawg May 20 #4
Many thanks. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #10
RIP XanaDUer2 May 20 #5
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #12
I'm sad for your loss, I am sad he was homeless. I am especially sad he died alone, and needlessly of Covid ... marble falls May 20 #6
Thanks very much. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #15
That is a shame. LiberalFighter May 20 #7
He died in Florida. I've looked into this, but without his SSN, it's unlikely. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #16
You're Right modrepub May 20 #41
Thanks for your advice and insights. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #135
Doesn't look like there is a way to locate it in Florida. LiberalFighter May 20 #42
We did that. The phone number is a mobile number with an area code that serves Minneapolis. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #45
He may well have turned to the VA with such a health crisis. 70sEraVet May 20 #56
Thank you. We'll reach out. That's a good idea. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #77
Yes... definitely check with the VA! slightlv May 20 #105
Thank you! We haven't given up yet. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #136
Aw, I'm sorry anyway... FirstLight May 20 #8
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #17
I am so sorry, not just for your loss, but also because you are left with so many unanswered questions. tblue37 May 20 #68
Yes, that's difficult. Frustrating. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #79
I'm so sorry, Oopsie Daisy. LuckyCharms May 20 #11
Many thanks! Oopsie Daisy May 20 #18
Condolences FakeNoose May 20 #13
Thanks so much. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #20
Requiescat in pace shrike3 May 20 #14
I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #21
Praying for you mdmc May 20 #19
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #23
Sorry to hear this. ❤️ underpants May 20 #22
Many thanks. It's not what I expected, but not surprising. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #24
for the last twenty years I ran a treatment apartment program for people with severe mental illness mdmc May 20 #29
That's a good idea! We'll try that. We haven't given up on our efforts to reach out... Oopsie Daisy May 20 #33
between the soup kitchens and bodega employees and social workers and others on the street... mdmc May 20 #43
I'll never NOT give to a pandhandler again (unless I have nothing to give) Oopsie Daisy May 20 #53
Yes. I agree with you on this. KarenS May 20 #61
Husband always gives to panhandlers. shrike3 May 20 #92
That's my new philosophy. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #102
The worrying and wondering must have been dreadful to bear. brer cat May 20 #25
Yes. And I thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #27
Holding your family in my heart. Mercy and peace bring you consolation... n/t TygrBright May 20 #26
Thanks very much. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #28
So sorry for your loss. Whenever a family member leaves, there is loss. And grief. japple May 20 #30
I appreciate your comforting thoughts. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #36
Bless. PlutosHeart May 20 #31
Thanks for your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #34
I'm so sorry happy feet May 20 #32
Thank you very much. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #37
I am sorry. KarenS May 20 #35
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #39
I'm so very sorry cate94 May 20 #38
I appreciate your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #40
I can certainly understand why you would have a sense of relief! PortTack May 20 #44
Yes. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #48
I am so sorry for your loss. sheshe2 May 20 #46
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #49
I'm so sorry Katcat May 20 #47
Thanks for your kindness. Sending strength to you and your family as well. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #50
I am so sorry senseandsensibility May 20 #51
Thanks very much for you kind thoughts. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #54
I am sorry - TBF May 20 #52
I understand. Thanks for sharing your story, too. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #57
Sorry for your situation. I sense your feeling MOMFUDSKI May 20 #55
I appreciate that. Many thanks! Oopsie Daisy May 20 #58
So sorry for your loss SocialDemocrat61 May 20 #59
Thank you. That means a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #64
I'm so sorry, and it is so sad. lapucelle May 20 #60
I appreciate your kind words. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #65
I'm sorry for your loss, for what was & is & might have been. May he rest in peace & may you remember the good times. Hekate May 20 #62
Many thanks! That means a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #66
Very sorry, Oopsie. ancianita May 20 #63
We are relieved, and sad. I can't even remember what my last words to him were. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #67
It's true. I hope you gave him a feeling of care. ancianita May 20 #69
I am so sorry Oopsie Daisy. May the memeories and love you two shared be a blessing to you. debm55 May 20 #70
Yes... we had a wonderful childhood. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #73
I'm so sorry... LeftInTX May 20 #72
Thanks so much! Oopsie Daisy May 20 #74
I'm so sorry mountain grammy May 20 #75
Many thanks. We were close as children * Oopsie Daisy May 20 #76
So sorry for your loss. COL Mustard May 20 #78
I will. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #82
Holding you and your family in love and light. May you all find peace niyad May 20 #81
I appreciate that. Thank you Oopsie Daisy May 20 #84
It sounds like this was the life he chose, so hopefully he was happy in it. Very sorry for your loss. Joinfortmill May 20 #83
Yes. I must remind myself of that. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #85
I'm very sorry for your loss dlk May 20 #86
Thank you, dlk! Oopsie Daisy May 20 #88
Of course, I'll be thinking of you dlk May 20 #90
Condolences on your loss Alice Kramden May 20 #87
I appreciate that, Alice. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #89
Dear Oopsie Daisy, madaboutharry May 20 #91
Thanks very much! I appreciate that. It helps to share. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #96
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your brother, John. lucca18 May 20 #93
Thanks, Lucca18. Your kind words mean a lot. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #97
I'm very sorry to hear this Orrex May 20 #94
Thanks, Orrex! I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #99
I am sorry for your loss this way; I was also at a loss peacebuzzard May 20 #95
Thanks for sharing your story, too. Oopsie Daisy May 20 #100
So with you. I am so sorry. MuseRider May 20 #98
Yes. During this silence, we'd wondered "what-if he's dead" ... Oopsie Daisy May 20 #101
Thanks, MuseRider May 20 #104
The OUTPOURING of kindness of EVERYONE HERE has been very helpful and HEARTWARMING, and * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #111
Sad story. It's not a Brady Brunch reality for a lot of families. OAITW r.2.0 May 20 #103
Thank you, OAITW. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #108
What a story. What a sad story, and a heart-breaking one. He went where his heart wanted to go. Doodley May 20 #106
Thanks very much! That helps to put it into perspective. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #109
I'm sorry for your loss. area51 May 20 #107
That's kind of you to say. Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #110
Sorry for your loss. Don1 May 21 #112
Many thanks, Don1 ... I appreciate that. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #113
Sounds fishy. ECL213 May 21 #114
We thought that might be a possibility. But he stopped picking up and cashing checks * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #116
The County Medical Examiner or Coroner should have a record of his death, Liberty Belle May 21 #118
That's a good idea. Many road blocks and brick walls so far. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #119
My deepest condolences. Ursus Rex May 21 #115
Thank you. That's a good way to describe it * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #117
I am sorry Lulu KC May 21 #120
Yes. That's exactly right. Definitely a mixed-bag * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #132
we had a few of those in my family.... dembotoz May 21 #121
Thanks for sharing and for checking-in. Things like this * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #130
Let's hope Sue is still not receiving his benefits Owens May 21 #122
That's a good question. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #124
I'm so sorry your brother died sdfernando May 21 #123
Many thanks. It's frustrating and emotionally exhausting trying to find information * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #129
Condolences wryter2000 May 21 #125
Thank you. You're right * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #128
I'm so sorry. Lots of complicated feelings there. yardwork May 21 #126
We had a regular childhood, but it fell apart eventually * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #127
Sounds a lot like my brother bif May 21 #131
Thanks for sharing that, Bif. I'm very sorry * Oopsie Daisy May 21 #133
Thanks bif May 21 #137
sorry to hear this bif mdmc May 21 #134
Thanks. bif May 21 #138
So sad...... a kennedy May 21 #139
Thank you. Oopsie Daisy May 21 #140
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