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In reply to the discussion: The latent sexism of the male marriage proposal [View all]PassingFair
(22,434 posts)...well, our first date DID last 4 days!
One night, after he had moved in, he was talking about "what if we got married..."
I asked him if he was asking me or just talking...
He got up and dug out a ring setting that we had found while we were out walking,
super-glued a piece of green glass into it, and told me he was only asking if I was saying
"yes".
I said yes....we've been married for 25 years now.
After we got "engaged", people, mostly women, would ask to see "the ring"...
I would stick my hand out and show them that god-awful, glued together ring
and they would be STRUCK SPEECHLESS!!
Got a lot of mileage out of that ring!
I put it away when I got my gold band, which I wear all the time. Not to show
that I am "property", but to signal my "paired" status.