What can we DU now to help TTW and Yoshi ?

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148. Yes, Yoshi is a family member - which is why so many are suggesting

that Yoshi go somewhere safe and stable.

Just like a life in constant chaos and turmoil is not good for a child, it isn't good for a dog.

Lets look at it from TTW's perspective. Yes, Yoshi is all she has (it sounds like). But Yoshi isn't a goldfish or pet hamster. He is a large dog who needs a lot of food, vet checkups, and supervision (because of all the stress going on, Yoshi is in protective mode). That is a lot of responsibility for someone under good circumstances. Now you have someone who (again from what I understand) doesn't have a permanent home or work situation, or emotional support from family. How can TTW focus on getting what she needs done - work, home, stability while she is worried about Yoshi?

I am not saying everyone in a crappy situation should lose their children or pets. But it sounds like TTW has hit a major crisis point and she needs to focus 100% of her energy on herself and let someone focus their energy on Yoshi.

I don't think it has to be forever but right now it may be for a few months.

One final thing to keep in mind - if a child acts out because they are stressed - hit someone for example - they won't be euthanized. If Yoshi bites someone - either out of fear or to protect TTW - he will be euthanized. That would devastate TTW more than any separation would.