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KY_EnviroGuy

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19. There's been a shift in how people process things they hear.
Sun Sep 10, 2017, 06:52 PM
Sep 2017

I've noticed a trend over the last several years where increasingly, many folks seem to hear things with a bias of suspicion. In other words, their brains seem to ask "how can this harm me" when hearing statements directed to them. I'm stating that because of the reactions I get from people, who many times respond to seemingly innocuous comments with a harsh or "upside down" reaction.

Previously, I would notice that sort of response only from people who had reason to be highly suspicious - say, those who had been in abusive relationship or abused as a child, or someone that had been in prison.

I think we have a lot of work to do toward rehabilitating our collecting mode of thinking about one another. If we don't work toward restoring trust in our fellow man, then we may be doomed to anarchy, or the other end of the spectrum - a dictatorship.

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Misunderstanding [View all] JimGinPA Sep 2017 OP
Yes. Say it loud! MineralMan Sep 2017 #1
Excellent! KT2000 Sep 2017 #2
Bookmarked! Baitball Blogger Sep 2017 #3
Thank you. This is great. (I can think of others to add... NurseJackie Sep 2017 #4
It Came From BLM Minneapolis JimGinPA Sep 2017 #5
Much of that "Misunderstanding" ThoughtCriminal Sep 2017 #6
that is the point of the last line TeamPooka Sep 2017 #9
Excellent! BigOleDummy Sep 2017 #7
K and R BadgerMom Sep 2017 #8
Maybe it's not so much a "misunderstanding" ... kentuck Sep 2017 #10
I Think It's Implied... JimGinPA Sep 2017 #13
excellent... handmade34 Sep 2017 #11
This is cool. dawg Sep 2017 #12
Most people know what the word means. Igel Sep 2017 #18
Ah yes. The Humpty Dumpty Doctrine. . annabanana Sep 2017 #27
K & R JHan Sep 2017 #14
Good point! calimary Sep 2017 #15
if I say Black Lives Matter heaven05 Sep 2017 #16
The Ferguson Police chief was on the View and he said... Stellar Sep 2017 #17
There's been a shift in how people process things they hear. KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2017 #19
Wonderfully expressed. As for where, big kicks from political saboteurs? Hortensis Sep 2017 #20
good question. barbtries Sep 2017 #21
nice. i'd like to add orleans Sep 2017 #22
well said kag Sep 2017 #26
Excellent post. (nt) MarvinGardens Sep 2017 #23
All of those statements make some people feel before they think. mjvpi Sep 2017 #24
Where are they coming from? Three guesses... yuiyoshida Sep 2017 #25
Some people are doing this on purpose IronLionZion Sep 2017 #28
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