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Alice11111

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52. Wow. My daughter had meningitis at just under 2. We were
Tue Mar 28, 2017, 04:15 PM
Mar 2017

Lucky we lived very near Scott and White Hospital at the time, a residential training facility. It is very rare, but she was diagnosed immediately, even over the phone. They told me to rush her in. As I walked into the ER, literally as the doors were opening, I was met by seven Drs and nurses, who took her immediately from my arms, without my even going through Registration. They kept her for several hours, and then she spent weeks in the hospital.
(Her father, who fortunately was away for the evening speaking, came later to the hospital, irate, that I had taken her into the hospital, without consulting him, and said he could have handled it, without getting a medical bill. We were lawyers.)

She has other hearing complications also, unrelated to her meningitis. Vestibular Aqueduct Syndrome and other things. She had a very difficult childhood for that and other reasons...divorce, single parent, much more. I tried to compensate, but it was very hard for her. In college, she had note takers, but they often did not show. She reads lips well, but many professors had foreign accents. All of school was very stressful, from very young, bullying, even into grad school. She had a special phone to call her patients, and another student stole it for spite.

I was stunned when I read your post. You have had some tragic experiences. I am very sorry those things happened in your life. You are obviously brave and resilent.

My daughter feared she could never hear her children speak. Having a cat and dog helped her, as the cat would perk up when she needed to be alerted to something. She has aids, but as you know, hearing aids are not like having glasses for sight problems. With her conditions, they do little anyway, but even a little can be a lot. She is now married with a one and a three year old daughter, and.a loving husband. The kids both speak and sign.

I would leave my trumpster relatives for Canada with no problem. Fortunately, we live in different states and long distances away. My daughter lives notth and I am south, so I might even be closer to her. Mainly, I no longer like what our country stands for, in terms of values and decency. I am with the resistance. We should give the Statue of Liberty to Canada.


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Trumps skill is not deal-making with powerful counterparts. It is duping gullible victims. Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2017 #1
His purpose in life is to lie, cheat, and steal dalton99a Mar 2017 #4
Frum's words are incisive. DT said he could shoot someone Alice11111 Mar 2017 #33
DU Rec. NT Adrahil Mar 2017 #58
They can't admit that toot-toot flamed out! Kittycow Mar 2017 #2
Changed my mind. C Moon Mar 2017 #3
A true leader would embrace the loss as his alone, NCjack Mar 2017 #5
It's the American business model Orrex Mar 2017 #7
he's also a narcissistic asshole who can't admit he messed up Fast Walker 52 Mar 2017 #22
Cultists don't dare doubt their beloved leader Orrex Mar 2017 #6
I'm sure though that they pegged him down a few notches -- he's no longer totally Mr. Magic progree Mar 2017 #8
there are clips of him saying over and over how he will quickly fix healthcare and make it so much Fast Walker 52 Mar 2017 #23
his hard core followers are lost and brain dead. NRaleighLiberal Mar 2017 #9
Trump is not on the ballot in 2018. The people the Republicans they're pissed at are. nt geek tragedy Mar 2017 #10
the Con clearly shot the nation in the face and his rabid base does not care. KewlKat Mar 2017 #11
Yeah, instead of us looking for places to move, let's drive Alice11111 Mar 2017 #37
fecking idiots.... dhill926 Mar 2017 #12
Trump can never fail. He can only be failed. (nt) muriel_volestrangler Mar 2017 #13
Release the doves... Mc Mike Mar 2017 #14
Again, how did these people get so stupid? Especially the older ones. Tatiana Mar 2017 #15
They have no regard for reality, substance or truth. MarcA Mar 2017 #19
Young Trump supporters will grow out of it Jonny Appleseed Mar 2017 #30
Good point. Tatiana Mar 2017 #43
Good examplrs of where we need to put our time &resources Alice11111 Mar 2017 #38
"being a businessman, he'll not take no for an answer." What's with the reverence for businessmen? JudyM Mar 2017 #16
"He must've worked on this for 7 or 8 days! klook Mar 2017 #29
Prolly not much more than 7-8 hours. JudyM Mar 2017 #32
"The buck stops ..." left-of-center2012 Mar 2017 #17
It really was Paul Ryan's baby after all FakeNoose Mar 2017 #18
His hardcore fans have FOX News, Rush and Breitbart going 24/7 to keep the illusion going. KittyWampus Mar 2017 #20
Sad, but I agree 100pc Alice11111 Mar 2017 #39
Post removed Post removed Mar 2017 #21
Our dear leader said it, so it must be true! Oneironaut Mar 2017 #24
I thought they would ck4829 Mar 2017 #25
im sure the less rabid supporters are slowly peeling away... samnsara Mar 2017 #26
My brother in NJ is one of them, I am sure riverbendviewgal Mar 2017 #27
I have one too. We communicate by sending photos of Alice11111 Mar 2017 #40
Good for you. riverbendviewgal Mar 2017 #41
Mine is in Tx, and carries an open carry gun in his briefcase Alice11111 Mar 2017 #44
Our differences may be because riverbendviewgal Mar 2017 #46
Lucky you, Living in Canada. I Wish I could ne a refuge! Alice11111 Mar 2017 #50
We do have similar childhood. riverbendviewgal Mar 2017 #51
Wow. My daughter had meningitis at just under 2. We were Alice11111 Mar 2017 #52
I was told the doctor gave an hour to live the first time. riverbendviewgal Mar 2017 #54
Thank you for sharing your story with me. Alice11111 Mar 2017 #55
Your welcome riverbendviewgal Mar 2017 #56
I was taking about you, she persisted! That is what the Alice11111 Mar 2017 #57
Tony Nappi from FloriDuh mdbl Mar 2017 #28
I'm from Florida and I'm afraid I can't disagree with your statement. BlueStater Mar 2017 #36
I apologize that it looked like I am lumping everyone in the same category mdbl Mar 2017 #42
Christ on a cracker... llmart Mar 2017 #31
Well, First Of All RobinA Mar 2017 #45
That's not entirely true... llmart Mar 2017 #48
Barnum was right! n/m bagelsforbreakfast Mar 2017 #34
Fuck you, brain-dead cultists. BlueStater Mar 2017 #35
It does have a cult like feel. Any facts that contradict Alice11111 Mar 2017 #53
Morons Alpeduez21 Mar 2017 #47
Delusional imbeciles ailsagirl Mar 2017 #49
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