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Duncanpup

(12,842 posts)
Fri Nov 25, 2022, 08:10 AM Nov 2022

I received a call about Guitar lessons, tuition is free here at Dunc pup school of music. [View all]

A ramble because I been up since 01:00 boys are asleep.
So I get this call on Tuesday I did not recognize the name yet I answered because of the loss of my wife Monday night thinking it may have been a friend of my wife’s.

Last Friday I went into jam with our one son’s guitar class and this young kiddo who is in ninth grade was in attendance. Let me back up so the school district had two in service days this past Monday and Tuesday then thanksgiving break. So the schools music teacher called me Monday afternoon asking if she could give out my number for guitar lessons she knew my wife was in hospital I said sure.

In talking to this mom on Tuesday and she explained besides the school guitar class she would like to give her daughter guitar lessons. And after we talked here she graduated with our oldest daughter I thought cool young lady. This mom told me guitar center I think she said charges like $50 for a single lesson and another private instructor was around $40 a lesson.In thinking I get it as parents we want to do for our children you know especially this mom being the only income.

She then asked what I charged I said free , and I’m gonna be off for maybe a month or two so yes I can commit. I just ask that you are present doing the lessons and we can do weeknights after school, then later it will be Saturday or maybe Sunday once I go back to work. I then said I’ll be in touch next week yet I woke up Wednesday and I thought why sit around and grieve so I text the mother and she brought her daughter out.

And in meeting with them I smiled because the young mom was well I can pay for study materials and the guitar lesson books. I told her yea we don’t have any of that we are unaccredited , I had 18 who also is on staff here and my guitar slinger print off different scale patterns and the circle of fifths because Dad doesn’t know how to print from laptop to show and send home with kiddo. Also I brought up different sites online besides you tube I showed them a guitar site I belong to you always learn exploring the fretboard.

This young lady is using a squire strat they bought on Craigslist $75 used I sent her home with a Mexican strat I upgraded for her to use. Her Stratocaster needs a setup and new tuners and I’m gonna replace the nut, also I may just swap out pots and cap and yea probably the pickups she’s been playing for awhile mostly I think you tube as lessons so I’m comfortable in upgrading her guitar. I have couple sets of wound pickups single coils and humbuckers a friend of mine winds.

I have a set of his 65 grey bottoms in a Greco se 700 strat of mine and in the mexi I sent home with the kiddo i have a set of his what he calls his 69’s the 69’s both sets use Alnico 5 magnets 69’s take pedals really well and clean they are sweet in tone. I joke with my friend I said sign inside pick guard and date it and name your series of pickups. Like Abigail from fender I said if you make it these guitars will be priceless because of your pickups.

So after our lesson Wednesday kiddo asked when we can we do the next lesson how about Saturday I said young lady so 18 and I will be ready for kiddo. Our son said dad that’s the most I ever heard her speak as she is so quiet in school guitar class.

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Good to see you man, and that's very cool of you to do all that for the young lady Hugh_Lebowski Nov 2022 #1
Thanks Hugh Duncanpup Nov 2022 #3
Duncanpup you are one cool dude and an extraordinary human. Biophilic Nov 2022 #2
Duncanpup, I was so sorry to hear about Mrs. Duncanpup. Lochloosa Nov 2022 #4
Because... 2naSalit Nov 2022 #5
Duncanpup, the shared kindness in your "ramble" badhair77 Nov 2022 #6
You will have your student playing like this in no time Botany Nov 2022 #7
Ageeed why yesterday my son and I Duncanpup Nov 2022 #10
To me this is one of the best albums ever. Every cut is a winner. Botany Nov 2022 #13
If I ever learned to play the guitar, I'd want to do so finger style. Ligyron Nov 2022 #20
or playing like this :) Locrian Nov 2022 #23
Wonderful hlthe2b Nov 2022 #8
So glad you have your music. It is soothing to the soul. judesedit Nov 2022 #9
You are a good man, Mr. Duncanpup. rubbersole Nov 2022 #11
You are a generous man and I'm glad you are moving forward after your deep loss. . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2022 #12
Thank you for being a great human and teacher. AllyCat Nov 2022 #14
This post is just one of the reasons I admire you and I thought I should let you know. nt Atticus Nov 2022 #15
I don't know how you do it cate94 Nov 2022 #16
You teach her something she will have forever. The Jungle 1 Nov 2022 #17
Man oh man I bet the mom couldn't believe that the lesson would be free, what a relief to her! MLAA Nov 2022 #18
i just want to hug you Duncanpup barbtries Nov 2022 #19
What you are doing is the best thing you can do. Turning bad into good. True Blue American Nov 2022 #21
Bubba, you are the rock of rock. Rock on! marble falls Nov 2022 #22
Hugggggs to you and yours, my dear Duncanpup. I was so sorry to hear the niyad Nov 2022 #24
I Started Teaching Again, Too ProfessorGAC Nov 2022 #25
How kind of you for offering free lessons! redwitch Nov 2022 #26
In our household, it has always been my wife who has had the natural generous spirit. 70sEraVet Nov 2022 #27
Duncanpup, you're a hero to me (and I'm sure to many others here) for reaching out highplainsdem Nov 2022 #28
At age 76 I've had lots of losses. tavernier Nov 2022 #29
100% True Blue American Nov 2022 #31
You may find out that this young lady avebury Nov 2022 #30
You're doing a good thing, Duncanpup. CaptainTruth Nov 2022 #32
Sounds wonderful, Duncanpup, elleng Nov 2022 #33
It's good to see you, Dunc. What all these people just said... Hekate Nov 2022 #34
Freely giving of your attention and expertise, bringing out a skill in a shy girl, JudyM Nov 2022 #35
As a professional musician, fierywoman Nov 2022 #36
Thanks I Dm you fierywoman Duncanpup Nov 2022 #39
You have a big heart Duncanpup. CentralMass Nov 2022 #37
Your wife would be so proud of you doing this now grantcart Nov 2022 #38
Lovely malaise Nov 2022 #40
Music Lessons ms.pamela Nov 2022 #41
You are such a kind person, Dunc! SheltieLover Nov 2022 #42
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