Reply #13: Ah, the grief weight. [View All]

[aquart]

I lost ten pounds. And got sick. Every one of us got sick with something.

The sadness is right and natural. It just is. The only way thru it is thru it.

I hope the two of you are talking about her. Losing someone it was a privilege to know means she lives in memories.

I'm very glad your husband is going to see someone, though. He seems to be having a difficult time re-starting his life, as if he isn't entitled to when she can't. But he is. She raised him to survive her. It was the plan. Him living a long, happy, busy life long after she was gone was the plan.

I hope the time comes soon when he remembers her and mostly feels the joy.