Reply #109: Immature or emotionally messed-up women like rich jerks [View All]

[Lydia Leftcoast]

Look, I went to grad school at Yale, so I know about rich jerks.

I always went for the quirky, funny types.

Where nice, considerate men lose out is when they chase after the women who look like TV stars instead of after the nice, considerate women. Trust me on this.

Give the average young man a choice between a movie-star lookalike who's EVIL inside and an ordinary-looking woman who could be his soul mate, and he'll pick the nasty bimbo every time. (This statement is based on years of observing the behavior of college students.) He tries to please her, but of course, no one can please her, because she's a narcissist.

This happens often enough that clueless guys sit around and tell each other, "Chicks like to be treated like shit. If you're nice, they ignore you."

The reason that many nice women end up with jerks is that the jerks at least pay attention to them in their search for conquests.