Reply #43: Think of it this way: You have a wife (or husband) who is so desirable [View All]

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that everyone WANTS her (or him), but you, you're lucky or smart or desirable your ownself to be the one who HAS her (or him).

Thinking of the situation that way is real good for the ego, and makes the odd crush much less worrisome.

Trust me on this. I happen to be married (and I'm not boasting here, just stating facts) to a stunningly attractive woman, and the above-stated attitude keeps me from getting worked up.

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