Reply #27: Wow. [View All]

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I had no idea te average of "reconnecting" affairs was so high!

I'm in touch with one of my exes. We got in touch through Classmates, but there's nothing to it. At least on my end. My just write occasionally to see how the other is doing. To me, that's fine. It means both parties are adults who still care about each other as human beings although their relationship has ended. The relationship I had before this guy ended so spectacularly, that I really gave myself kudos for being grown up enough to stay friends with someone after it ended.

Once in awhile, I consider throwing a sassy little remark out there, but then I think of the amazing happiness given me by reprehensor, and our wonderful life together, and that comes to a screeching halt.

I don't even find the old guy attractive anymore. We saw each other again about 7 years ago (we dated in 1991), and there was nothing. When I look at reprehensor, my heart still pitter patters.

That's what really matters. You just think of what you have to lose, and what is more important to you, and consider your loved ones' feelings. You should never consider something that would hurt them if they knew.

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