Reply #7: Why is she trying to rush you? [View All]

[tjdee]

I don't think you're right for each other, right now. (And obviously I don't know either of you.)

If she is not content to just be with you, without a piece of paper, then it doesn't sound like she's really sure either. She wants a guarantee, and she does not feel there is one. Marriage is not a guarantee. What's the rush?

You are obviously unsure, and SHOULD NOT, under any circumstances, go along with marriage just because you love her. You have doubts that she is the one you should marry, you should not ignore those.

Sorry, because it looks like heartache is on the way for you guys... but whatever heartache you deal with now is much better than 10 years from now with kids, a house, etc. Honest. And if you two are meant to be together, you will be. Good luck!