Reply #40: One important thing you need to realize [View All]

[SarahB]

THIS GUY WILL NOT CHANGE!!!

Remind yourself of this and instead of trying to analyze exactly why he is the way he is, ask yourself:

Can I continue to work so closely with someone like this? If so, how long?

Once you've answered those questions, you can figure out some concrete plans as to what you want to do about this. I do know you are one to sometimes put up with a lot of crap, but then once you finally get fed up, you are hurt and angry (justifiably). Don't get yourself hurt- emotionally or financially because of this clown. Nothing obliges you to keep toxic people in your life.