Reply #5: okay. [View All]

[idgiehkt]

first off, is this really true for you? In order for you to start healing, do you have to express your anger at the ex? Or is this something that your neighbor thinks you need to do? I just don't understand the point in drumming up more drama for yourself since his tail is already out the door (unless you feel it's something you really need psychologically). I wouldn't expect him to get invested in a confrontation, it'll probably just make him scarcer, since he's rolling on down the road to his new life. You have to do what is right for you of course but the legal aspects of the separation is more what I'd be concentrating on, is he going to leave you the fair share of possessions and pay alimony and all of that. You deserve to be treated right; if you haven't worked then he should pay alimony til you get on your feet. :hug: :hug: :hug: