Reply #8: thanks, Connonym. We almost went to Reno to do it there [View All]

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but we thought we'll just plan it as a party/family get-together and the family won't feel sad that they weren't part of it.

I don't understand people who spend tens of thousands (or hundreds of thousands) of dollars on huge weddings. What a nightmare. The stress of planning everything and then trying to pay off such a huge loan. People are crazy.