Reply #21: It's a shame that he's disappointing you again. [View All]

[Gormy Cuss]

I agree with the others that it's time for a good talk and putting the agreement in writing so there's no pretending that it doesn't exist. HamdenRice may be right that his problem is that he isn't fully grown up yet and will eventually get there, but in the meantime he needs to understand that it's disrespectful of you to put you at risk because of his pot smoking at home (he can assume the risk for himself, but that's a different story)and for whatever other behaviors are taxing you. He's had several chances and keeps blowing them. Maybe it's time life with mom got a little tougher. I know that with my friends and family in similar circumstances that's what it took. Good luck.