Reply #28: The problem was obviously much deeper than that. [View All]

[RaleighNCDUer]

As indicated in '"Who knows why."

He DID know why. He refused to examine himself, however, and externalized the problem. The problem was always with 'them' rather than himself.

Another here posted he was hopelessly introverted. Introversion is not the problem. Introversion does not prompt anyone to kill. I, also, am terribly introverted. I have not had a girlfriend in more years than I care to think about. But because I am introverted, spending so much time in my own head, I am fully aware that it is NOT 'their' fault. The math is simple.

Every relationship I have been in has failed. This is self evident, in the fact that I am not in a current relationship.

The women in my every relationship have been nuts. This is more questionable. They seemed perfectly normal when I met them, leading me to one of two conclusions: All normal women are nuts; or, I don't know how to determine if a woman is nuts or not, and I choose poorly. The first conclusion is statistically unsupportable, which leaves me with the second. Therefore, either I am choosing to initiate relationships with women who are nuts, or there is something about me that attracts nuts. In either case, the problem is

ME.

Obviously, he chose the first conclusion: that it was all 'their' fault. And THAT is nuts.